Get Out Of Bed and Get Er Done!

 

 OH, I FORGOT!

 

I forgot when I went to bed last night that I had set my alarm really early this morning, a little bit earlier than normal so I could go get an extra interval session in today! So when the alarm went off this morning I was so tempted to turn it off and go back to sleep.

 

I was tempted to stay snuggled under the covers and neglect my own promise…to myself.  There was no one else there to hold me accountable for my skipped workout, no one but me.

 

Even as a fitness professional, I sometimes have a hard time waking up.

 

But I got up, I got dressed, and I went to the gym.

 

What was the difference? 

 

I promised myself I would last night, and then I enlisted a series of techniques to get my butt up and moving this morning.

 

Here are some quick GET OUT OF BED techniques to help you put your feet on the floor instead of putting your head on the pillow:

 

  1. Set a BED TIME!

This is a technique that can change your life!  Start setting a bedtime for yourself so you are not regretting your alarm in the morning.!  If you got enough hours of sleep, it is easier to reason yourself from one extra hour after the alarm has sounded. 

*TAKE NOTE: It is well known that if you do not get enough rest and recovery time at night it is HARDER to lose weight!!!  Why create an extra uphill battle…you do it to the kids, now do it for yourself, GO TO BED!

 

  1. Set your alarm for ONE snooze cycle

This has a strong psychological effect because it gives you permission to stay under the covers for 10 minutes longer, and ease out of bed instead of having to jump up immediately when you wake up.  Simply set your alarm earlier so you can take advantage of this extra time.  It also allows space for the next 2 tips.

 

  1. Turn on a “Natural Light Bulb”

Last night was the winter solstice, the longest night of the year.  For some that may translate to being the hardest morning to wake up.  The shortened daylight hours make us want to sleep longer, so battling this in the winter is tough.  There are many alarm clocks and night stand lights available to use the effects of “natural sunlight” to awaken you from your slumber.  I simply turn on my light when my alarm goes off the first time, and I am out of bed before the snooze alarm sounds.  It has been a life saver, especially as I usually go to work before the sunrise anyway.

*I would use care with this trick if you do not want to disturb your partner, but I have found it amazingly effective for early morning wakeup.  There are many lights that are small enough to only affect your side of the bed, and allow sleep to be undisturbed for anyone else.

 

 

  1. Practice Visualization

When the alarm has gone off, and you are waiting for the snooze alarm to nudge you a little further, start to visualize how amazing it is going to feel when you are DONE your workout.  Start to feel your sense of accomplishment knowing you got up and got it done. Focusing on the feeling of the accomplishment will start to wake you up and get you going toward that goal.

 

Another Visualization you could try is focusing on the workout, and how good it will feel to be completing it; feel yourself running on the treadmill or completing that last chest press, this will actually get your heart beating a bit faster and help wake you up.

 

  1. Create a Mantra

This is a little trick I have been using lately to get up and get going.  A Mantra is an affirmation you repeat to yourself to remind you of your commitment to your goal.  My latest Mantra is: “Successful People Get Up Early.”  I created this Mantra because I am not only trying to get up early to workout, but I am also getting up early to write and complete the goals I have set out for myself, and if I truly want success, I need to do what successful people do…and I get up.

*Remember, TRUE COMMITMENT is doing what needs to be done long after the moment of commitment passed, so creating a Mantra is a great tool to remind you of your goal and recommit yourself, even when you may not “feel” like doing it.

 

 

 

The Holiday Season is quickly coming and going, and soon the Mummers will be strutting their way downBroad Street.  There will be parties, food, and festivities to mark the end of the holiday season, and the beginning of 2012.  

We Wish You the Happiest and Healthiest of Holiday Seasons, and we will be bringing you great tips for the New Year!  Keep us on your Favorite List to get to your goals FAST!  I promise you will be glad you did!

Jo-Ellen Marks

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Is Your Diet Making You Fat?

 

 

Is your Diet Making You Fat?

 

Seems ironic, doesn’t it?

 

But it may be true…your attempts to lose weight could actually be making you fat!

 

There are many factors that may be contributing to this result, one being Diet Soda.

 

DIET SODA:

Diet Soda has been getting a lot of press lately, so let’s refer to the experts to get the full story. 

Dr. Helen Hazuda, professor of medicine at University of Texas Health Science Center atSan Antonio, reported about diet soda: “They may be free of calories, but not of consequences.”

Consequences like weight gain.

CBS News Health-Pop reported:

‘“For one study, researchers at the center followed 474 diet soda drinkers, 65 to 74 years of age, for almost 10 years. They found that diet soda drinkers’ waists grew 70 percent more than non-drinkers. Specifically, drinking two or more diet sodas a day busted belt sizes five times more than people who avoided the stuff entirely.

And as waist size grows, so do health risks – including diabetes, heart disease, cancer, and other chronic conditions.

Just how does diet soda make you fat? The other study may hold the answer. In it, researchers divided mice into two groups, one of which ate food laced with the popular sweetener aspartame. After three months, the mice eating aspartame-chow had higher blood sugar levels than the mice eating normal food. The authors said in a written statement their findings could “contribute to the associations observed between diet soda consumption and the risk of diabetes in humans.”

But how?

“Artificial sweeteners could have the effect of triggering appetite but unlike regular sugars they don’t deliver something that will squelch the appetite,” Sharon Fowler, obesity researcher at UT Health Science Center atSan Diegoand a co-author on both of these studies, told the Daily Mail She also said sweeteners could inhibit brain cells that make you feel full.

So if sugar soda is no good, and diet soda isn’t either – what should we be drinking?

Dr. Hazuda told the Daily Mail, “I think prudence would dictate drinking water.”

Diet Soda may be a short term alternative to helping you break your soda habit, but should be weaned out of long term, daily use. 

If you are currently drinking either regular or diet soda, consider cutting them back from daily use, and making healthier choices such as water and tea.  Many Homeopathic Physicians and Dieticians also recommend Stevia, which is an all natural, plant based, low calorie sweetener.  And Stevia does not appear to have the health consequences of other low-calorie sweeteners, which have been linked to cancer in several studies.  Luckily, Stevia has been becoming more available in your local grocery stores under the brand names such as Truvia and Stevia In The Raw.  Try it for yourself and see if making healthier choices can also taste better too.

Have A Healthy Day,

Jo-Ellen Marks

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I Was Inspired By YOU!

 

I had something else written to post today, but I had to stop and post this email I received from a client.

Take a moment and see if you can tell why I was so inspired:

 To: Joellen Marks
Subject: Fitness and Food Log

 


Good evening Jo Ellen,
I know it has been a while since we last spoke, and I just wanted to apologize to you for not holding up my end of the bargain – to include you and hold myself accountable on my fitness journey.

 
For the past month, I’ve been throwing excuses around for why I could not go to the gym nor eat healthier. Thinking about it now, I realize that subconsciously I’ve been trying to convenience myself and others, namely my mom and sister, that the situation is not that serious and I’m not that bad off. Well, let’s just say, the proof is in the pudding, and I’ve been sampling.


So today I am taking a bigger stance to really bring about personal change to my life. I need and want to be healthier, and I won’t be if I do not take steps to get there. Not sure why I’m good at taking the necessary steps needed to accomplish work, school and travel, but I need to find a way to bring that thinking to this aspect of my life. I apologize if it seems like ramble, but normally I never put to paper what I’m thinking in terms of health and fitness. My hope is that somewhere on this journey, I can have a breakthrough and find the clarity and thinking needed to change other aspects of my life.

 

With that said, I will list the workout I did and the food I had today.
Workout as follows….

 

 So Why Was I so Moved?

Because this took courage. 

It took courage for her to first look at herself, see where she could make a difference to get the results she wants, and then it took courage to write them down.

She will succeed.

I know it.

I have faith she will be successful because:

1. She took the time to look at herself

2. She was honest with herself

3. She is holding herself accountable

4. She is asking for support where she knows she will get it.

 

Can you see yourself in this letter? 

We are all just Human Beings being human, and by definition we will make mistakes and get off track.  When we can learn about ourselves, and develop love and compassion, then there is NOTHING that can stop us from attaining any goal.

Have you written a letter to yourself lately? 

Have you written out your goals and looked for where you may be blocking yourself?

You have the Power to Attain Your Goals, in fact, your fitness journey is one place where you have ALL the power to choose.  You actually get to say how it will go today: what you will eat, when you will workout, and when you will rest.  It is up to you and only you.

The sooner you realize it, the faster you will succeed.

 

Here is what I wrote back to her:

 

GOOD FOR YOU!!!!

The hardest part of achieving a goal is sticking to it even when you have “failed.”  But honestly, the only failure is never admitting your humanity and never getting back to your goal.

 

I am so proud of you for facing your road blocks head on!  This is not easy to do, and I want you to know I am excited for you!

 

Keep holding yourself accountable.  We all stumble, but getting back on track is what WILL get you to your goal!  ….

 

Set your schedule, and hold to it.  When you feel like you have little power elsewhere in your life, this is where you have ALL the power.  So use it!  …. 

WOOHOOO!!!  You go girl!   I am proud of you and you just inspired me, so thank you.

 

Anything is possible from here.

Have a Healthy and Happy Day!

 

Jo-Ellen Marks

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Turkey Day Survival Guide

 

 

Thanksgiving is here!

Unless you are the Thanksgiving Turkey, you may want to avoid being over stuffed for the holiday.   The average adult will consume 3000+ calories  just during dinner this Thursday, and while I am going to eat guilt-free on Thanksgiving, I do not want to gorge myself until I explode.

 

So what are some tips to help you survive this “eating for sport” holiday?  They are a lot more simple than you think!

 

  1. You can eat without guilt on the holiday! 

You can actually eat without guilt on Thanksgiving; just don’t turn it into a week of eating.  The best way to keep your body at maximum fat burning potential is to do 2 things:

  1. Make sure you eat healthy the day before and the day after the holiday,  minimizing the impact of storing calories as fat.
  2. Workout the day before and the day after the holiday.  Cardiovascular Exercise and High Intensity Interval Training are your best choices to help accelerate the fat burning.

 

  1. Don’t Starve Yourself

Not eating all day before a party is one of the worst things you could do.  You will be more likely to over eat if you go to dinner already hungry, in addition, you are setting your body up to save more of those calories as body fat.  Your best plan of action is to eat small, healthy meals throughout the day, and not be starving when you arrive at the dinner table.

 

  1. Start with the Veggies

If your family is anything like mine, we always have a raw veggie tray as an appetizer.  If you want to minimize the impact of dinner, fill up on the veggies before hand.  Not only will you be getting generous doses of fiber and vitamins, but you will also eat less of the calorie rich foods.

 

  1. One Plate and Done

This is a trick that allows you to eat all of your favorite foods on Thanksgiving, but not go crazy.  Fill your plate with all of your favorite foods, sit down and enjoy eating them, but do not go back for seconds.  You can use this technique throughout the holiday season, so you do not undo all of your efforts from the gym. 

 

  1. Save the Wine

If you would like to save some calories at dinner and still drink your wine, pour your wine until the end of the meal.  If you avoid drinking wine with your dinner, you will actually save extra calories…and let’s face it, who is paying attention to what you are eating after a couple glasses of wine?  Another trick to consume less alcohol is to drink a glass of water between each cocktail; this will also keep you hydrated.

 

 

At the end of the day, this is a holiday all about eating and you want to be able to enjoy it.  These tips are to help you minimize the impact on your body and help you maintain your fitness levels and achieve your goals, but I do not expect you to be a saint on Thanksgiving.  Be grateful for all of the blessings you have had, including the delicious food, and respect your body with the tips offered here.  Your body will Thank You back.

 

Have a Happy and Healthy Thanksgiving!

 

Jo-Ellen Marks

 

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Shhh…That is a Dirty Word

 

Dirty Little Word

 

I want to pose you a question: How long have you been trying to lose weight?

 

Has it been weeks, months or even years?

 

Are you always on a “diet”?

 

Yes, in my world Diet is a four letter word, and the first three letters are: D-I-E.  That does not sound like something fun or worthy of your time and effort.  

 

You may not know me personally, but you should know that I am committed to your success in your weight loss effort, and my first declaration for you is get off the DIEt cycle, because it is killing you.

 

I am of course not speaking of physical death here, you could not be reading this if you were dead. 

 

I am speaking of DIEts as killing your spirit and self-esteem. 

 

If you, like myself and so many others, have had the experience of losing weight, feeling great, receiving compliments left and right ONLY to have gained ALL the weight back, then you know what I am talking about.

 

 It is a vicious cycle and it leaves your self esteem and motivation in its wake. 

 

So yes, I am very familiar with dying this small death for every pound gained after feeling the glory of accomplishment.  There are many feelings you could have, but I think the worst one is the shame we associate with failing in this area of our lives, and the perceived judgment of others. 

 

Weight is not something you can hide if you have gained it. Sure, you could buy all black clothing and Snookie your hair so you “appear” taller and leaner, but do you really want to feel like you are hiding anything about yourself???

 

Let me ask that again:  do you want to live your life hiding behind a funeral director’s wardrobe or do you want to live in the beautiful clothes you bought when you felt good about your appearance?

 

Then you MUST stop dieting.  If diets worked, you would be at your target weight.  If diets worked then the 40 Billion Dollars spent a year on weight loss products would not be resulting in Americans being at record breaking obesity levels. 

 

What you need is a lifestyle change: eating whole, natural foods that are complimentary to our activity levels.  The more you move, the more you can eat.

 

So here are 5 SIMPLE tips you can do today to break your diet habit:

 

  1. Drink more water.  I did not say diet soda, really it is water. 
  2. Eat more Fiber.  Simply adding 6 grams of fiber a day will have a positive impact on your ability to lose weight.
  3. Plan your meals.  Do not leave your food choices up to the last moment when you are hungry, then you will be more likely to make poor choices.
  4. Learn about Glycemic index.  Knowledge is power.  If you do not know what that means, you should stop reading this blog immediately and Google Glycemic index, it makes a difference.
  5. Keep a food journal.  This is the only way to truly evaluate your progress and areas you can improve.  If you are not honest on those pages then you are only cheating yourself.

 

ANYONE can take on the above 5 steps toward a healthy eating plan, even you.  If you said you can’t then you are predicting the future for yourself.  Whatever you say or believe about changes to your nutrition will come true.  If you want success, start to think successful thoughts.  If you want failure, then think about failure.

Next week we will have more quick tips for continuing cleaning up your nutrition and ending diets forever.  Until them make these small changes, and see what happens.

 

 I believe in your success.

 

Have a Healthy and Happy Day,

 

Jo-Ellen Marks

 

 

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Dr. Oz And Optimal Sport…Perfect Together

Optimal Sport had the rare opportunity to be on TV with the one and only Dr. Oz.

It was a remarkable morning.  I can hardly contain how excited I was to make an appearance with Dr. Oz.

So how was this event possible?  Optimal Sport’s good friend John Bolaris was gracious enough to invite me to do a short piece on the Eagles Pre-Game show.   We were going to talk about the stress levels of Eagles Fans and help them relieve some of their stress with a quick warm up and workout…

…And, of course, lots of smiles and laughter can also help alleviate the stress of a tough football season. 

All of this was accomplished when we took to the airwaves.  John Bolaris, Dr Oz, Shaun Young, and I all did our best to make this November afternoon shine a little brighter for the fans.

 We started with a light warm up to get the blood flowing and the mood lifted, because as you know, exercise is one of the best ways to reduce stress and depression, two increasing side effects of our current Eagle’s Football Season.

Once the crowd was moving and having a great time we brought it all home with an enthusiastic E-A-G-L-E-S Eagles!  The crowd really seemed to have enjoyed the action….

This was a perfect day, well, almost perfect until the Eagles lost. 

I guess Dr Oz will just have to come back to Philadelphia again so we can have a bigger pre-game workout!  The fans need it now more than ever!

Have a Happy and Healthy Day,

Jo-Ellen Marks

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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How BIG is Your WHY?

 

 

HOW BIG IS YOUR WHY?

 

You have taken the time to figure out your goal, write it down, and create healthy habits to help you achieve it.  So now I have a question for you….

 

Have you started taking the steps necessary to get there?

 

If not, WHY not?

 

Did a list of excuses just pop in your head?

 

Have you been waiting for me to instruct you?

 

Have you been waiting for a sale, or a specific date, maybe for the weather to break…that seems like a GREAT reason to have put it off a little longer.

 

WHY? WHY?  WHY?  Why have you waited?

 

Or Rather….

 

Let’s ask this question a little differently….WHY do you want to accomplish your goal?

 

WHY do you want to lose weight?

 

WHY do you want to get toned?

 

WHY are you going to alter your behavior? Because the truth is, if your WHY is not more important than your EXCUSES you will quit and lose sight of your goal.

 

This is where the going gets tough, but those with the biggest WHY get going.  Let me use an example:

The weather is starting to turn chilly and cold here in the Northeastern United States, the sun is rising later, and sleeping in has become easier.  If your WHY is not bigger than your desire to stay in bed on a cold, dark morning, then staying in bed will win. You will:

  • Hit the snooze button over and over
  • Reset your alarm for a later time
  • Rationalize that tomorrow is just as good as today
  • Resign yourself that this is too hard and quit all together

 

But if your WHY is bigger, then you will:

  • Make sure you got to bed on time
  • Set your alarm clock to get you up
  • Stay awake after the alarm goes off
  • Start visualizing how you will feel when you workout
  • Visualize how great it will feel when you are done
  • Visualize how disappointed you will be if you do not get up
  • You will do what it takes to get up

 

 

Sit down and write out TEN reasons WHY achieving your goal is important to YOU.  Make the reasons BIG:

  • You want to be alive and healthy to watch your children grow
  • You want to reduce your blood pressure
  • You want to feel less aches and pains in your joints
  • You want to actually ENJOY shopping for clothing
  • You want to be proud of how you look
  • You want to feel sexy for your partner
  • You want to …. (fill in the blank)

 

WHAT IS YOUR WHY?

 

Write it down.  Put it next to your alarm clock, on the refrigerator, in your car, as your screen saver…wherever you will see it and be reminded that this is your goal…and THIS TIME YOU WILL WIN ….THIS TIME, YOU FINALLY GET TO WIN.

 

These mind games may seem simple, but you will soon discover how powerful the simplest of steps can be to help you achieve this or any goal you have set for yourself.

 

No More Excuses.

 

It Is Up To You, and ONLY You.

 

And THIS TIME, you FINALLY get to win.

 

Have a healthy, happy day!

 

Jo-Ellen Marks

 

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A Weighty Weight Issue: Habits

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Welcome Back!

In Blog One you determined your goal.

In Blog Two you set into motion the first 6 steps to help you focus on that goal.

So now…

 

You want to develop a HABIT….something you do everyday, without thought, to aide you in achieving your goals.

 

First thing I must stress here is that you can not actually “break” a habit; you will more than likely meet defeat if you try to simply stop or alter a behavior.  Instead, you must modify a behavior by adapting to a new pathway or routine…simply put, you need to implement a new plan of action instead of changing your already existing plan.

 

So how would this apply to a fitness and weight loss program?  I am glad you asked.

 

You need to develop a plan.

 

How?

 

Get your calendar and we will develop your plan.

 

Step 1:  SCHEDULE YOUR WORKOUTS

Do not leave your schedule to random chance, hoping you will get into the gym 4 times this week.  Instead, be proactive, look at your commitments beginning on Sunday (or any day you think is the beginning of the week) and MAKE APPOINTMENTS with yourself.   IF YOU SKIP THIS STEP YOU WILL FAIL.  End of story.  Unless you are one of the few people with an unlimited amount of time to workout, then you need a plan.

So, when are more likely to be successful?  Early mornings, evenings, weekends?  Pick the best 4 sessions that you know you will keep; so if you enjoy happy hour on Friday night, scheduling a session Friday after work may lead to defeat.  Be real, practical and strict and you will win here.

 

Step 2:  BE ACCOUNTABLE

This will make you plan full-proof!  It is easy to skip your workout if you are the only person holding yourself accountable.  Give your word to another person, someone who has your best interest at heart, and you will win.  Some great ideas are:

  • Have a reliable workout partner, preferably someone who has a similar schedule to yours
  • Join a Group Training class or Bootcamp
  • Hire a Personal Trainer
  • Join a Weight Loss support group

 

Step 3: PLAN YOUR MEALS

Again, if you leave this to random chance, you are almost guaranteed to get random results.  Here are the BEST tips for meal planning:

  • Plan a week of meals, then shop, prepare and freeze/refrigerate on Sunday.  This way you will not have to think about “what’s for dinner” when you are home late from work, eliminating a bad choice when you are tired and hungry.
  • Write out a shopping list and STICK TO IT!  I don’t care what was on sale.
  • Add more fiber to every meal…this is one of the simplest tricks to drop some treats you may have eaten.
  • Pack you lunch and snacks.  Again, a great way to avoid poor choices, and it will save you a ton of money.
  • If you are going to eat out, know ahead of time what type of meal you are going to eat; a salad and lean protein are a great fall back at any restaurant…just beware of all the extras on the salad.
  • Allow yourself a “free day” to eat.  This will create a reward for all of the temptations you have resisted all week.  If you are really craving ice cream on Wednesday, you can look forward to eating it guilt free on Saturday, therefore increasing your chances for compliance with your healthy eating.

 

Step 4:  BE HONEST

Being honest with yourself is critical for your success.  You are the only one who will know the truth, right?  Probably not: consider that people around you are paying attention and if you simply are “claiming” to work out and eat healthy, but your results are showing otherwise, they ARE on to you.  (And your REAL friends will tell you the truth).  Here are some tips to be honest with yourself:

  • Write down your Goals
  • Write down your workouts
  • Weigh yourself once a week
  • Keep a food journal
  • Have a workout partner that will build up your confidence, NOT co-sign your excuses
  • Hire a Personal Trainer, we are skilled at keeping you honest

 

Remember, this is YOUR goal, not mine, not your spouse’s, not your mother’s.  Unless you want it for yourself and are willing to put in the work required to achieve your goal and breakthrough your boundaries, you will defeat yourself every time.

Make these steps your NEW HABIT.  These are for life long healthy habits, and will add quality to your years.

So next week, we will chat about WHY you want this goal.  The BIGGER your WHY, the GREATER your RESULTS.

 

You will finally win!

 

Have a Healthy and Happy Day,

 

Jo-Ellen Marks

 

 

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6 Quick Steps To Reach Your Goal

So, What Is Your Goal?

In last week’s blog we talked about the importance of goal setting, take a moment to review that if necessary. Remember, if you don’t have a clear goal your indifference will be apparent in your lack of results. So pick one!

Got it? Great, let’s get started.

Now that you have your fitness and weight loss goal defined (really, these steps could be applied for any goal you have set in life) we have to make a plan. I know, more mind work before the sweat starts, but this plan is crucial to your progress and will let YOU SUCCEED where other plans have failed.

Get a piece of paper, or open a blank word document and lets get going….go ahead, I will wait. Ready?

Step 1: Write Down Your Goal.
• Put it in front of you in big, bold letters.

Step 2: Determine how long it will take you to realistically achieve your goal.
• Remember, there are no magic potions or pills; this is for a lifetime of health and fitness, so say good bye to “overnight, non-lasting” results. This is an extreme challenge to people in the digital age who are conditioned to expect instant results, but haven’t you wasted enough of you time, effort and money already?
     o Believe me…the workouts we will do are PROVEN to deliver FAST, EFFECTIVE results. They will not be easy, but they will deliver.
• You should set a weight loss goal of 1-2 lbs a week. Slower is better, because your body will KEEP it off once you get to your goal, not rebound in the opposite direction from deprivation. I am sure you have tried other methods that may have worked faster, but how long did the results last, and how many EXTRA pounds did you gain as a souvenir for that program? Yeah, that’s what I thought.

Step 3: Write down the date you want to achieve your goal by.
• Count out week by week and determine how long it will take you to achieve your goal.
• i.e.: if you want to lose 40 lbs of body fat, at 2 lbs a week that would be 20 weeks.

 

Step 4: Write out your goal and target date together:
• By February 28th, I will be….
IMPORTANT NOTE: watch your word choice here. Avoid saying “I want to lose 40 lbs,” instead say “I will weight/be/have…” and put your ideal weight/ size/ goal in that space. We will go into the details of why this is so important later, but for now trust me (please), just do it.

Step 5: Write out this Goal at least one more time and put it somewhere you will see it and say it out loud everyday.
You could:
• Tape it to the refrigerator (Great location if you want an “eat healthy” reminder where temptation lies.)
• Put it in your car
• Type it as your screen saver
• Put it on your calendar to appear as an appointment everyday
• Tape it next to the bathroom mirror

Step 6: Start saying your goal to yourself everyday, several times a day.
• You want to start flexing those neuro-synapses in your brain to train them to be your best ally for this journey.
• Have you ever heard the phrase “Mind Over Matter?” When it comes to achieving a goal, you need all of the reinforcements you can rally to help you win this time. You will finally get to win this time!
• The mind is the most powerful weapon in the attack on fat, but yet we have barely begun to scratch the surface to utilize this key ambassador for our health and fitness goals.
• Remember, you have used it in your past to get something that may have appeared unattainable, let’s harness this force already available within you and make your fitness dreams a reality!

Now you have written your goal and target date. Great job! Everyday this week you are going to talk yourself into believing you WILL achieve your goal. Notice any mental resistance that may creep into your psyche. Be done with the negative thoughts; focus only on your goal. YOU will finally achieve it this time.

Next time we will take a look at WHAT steps it will take to get your there. We will be chatting about that next week….so y’all come back now, y’hear!

Have a HAPPY, HEALTHY DAY!

Until next time Optimal Nation-

Jo-Ellen Marks

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The Secret To Winning at Losing Weight

I have a question for you: 

Have you ever surprised yourself and achieved a goal that, at the outset, seemed almost impossible?

 

Have you ever wanted something so bad that you were willing to get up early, work late, or rise above circumstances that otherwise would have knocked you off track?

 

I am certain, that at some moment in your life you were able to rise above any situation and achieve one goal….one solitary moment of success that was so incredible you were moved by your own ability to have accomplished it.

 

Focus on that moment.

 

How did it feel?

 

Let that emotion into you body, into your heart, into your soul….how does it feel? 

 

I am sure it feels incredible.

 

That passion, that determination, that focus is available to you at ANY time IF you know how to harness that power.  The power to achieve any goal you want is within you already….learning how to capture and control it is the key to succeeding at at Mastering you physical body.

 

There are no potions or pills to buy, no single product on TV at 3 am, and no guru to make you do it.  It is all inside of you right now.

 

So why have you not been able to attain your fitness goals?  If it is all inside of you, why have you fallen off track over and over?  Because your roadmap was unclear, and full of boulders and detours that got you off track….and that is why we are here.

 

We are here to help you map out your path to FINALLY achieve your health and wellness goals.  We have seen the obstacles on your path and are going to show you ways that you can choose to continue on the highway to absolutely achieving your goals.

Start today…start right now!  Begin by taking the first step toward your health and fitness goals.  What is that first step?  Decide THIS is the moment for you to succeed.  THIS is the perfect time and the Optimal Opportunity for YOU to finally achieve your goals.

 

Step 1:

            DECLARE YOUR GOAL!

 

You may be asking: Don’t I need to put on my sneakers?  How can step one be to stand still?  This is the most important step for you to achieve your goal, because if you don’t know where you want to go, how can you plan out a roadmap to success?

 

What is your GOAL?

 

Focus on it.  Feel it as if you have already achieved it.  Know that this time you will make it happen, and keep those results for a lifetime.

 

Got it? Good. You are on the fast track to great results!

Focus on this goal everyday.  Focus on it when you want to sleep in and skip your workout.  Focus on it when you want to buy junk food and swerve off course.  Focus on your goal, and BELIEVE it is possible when you hit a stumbling block, then get up, brush yourself off and continue on your path to success.

 

Now, I am not going to leave you there, on your own.  We will continue to map out your path together.  But by taking this first step, you have just given yourself the POWER to make it happen, leave the details to the experts like us.  Together we will make it a reality.

Have a Healthy Day!

Jo-Ellen

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